Restore "FAMILY" for propeace

The foundation of Peace is the FAMILY.Without peace in family,peace cannot be established at any level.To restore family structure, the first step is to improve relationship between husband and wife.The relationship is detoriating day by day mainly because of stresses created from over- materialistic culture.Both physical as well as spiritual relationship between husband and wife are on the decline.Sexual component of physical relatioship plays a major role.Extra-marital relationship accompanied by clash of ego,lack of understanding and adustment between husband and wife etc have led to collapse of family,which is the foundation of social structure.Wife and husband should be made equal partners without any gender discrimation.If the wife becomes an alpha woman,the husband should gladly accept without being jealous and readjust his mind-set with a positive attitude to avoid any conflict.The wife should also take appropriate care of the husband's psychi and share everything in apositive manner with her husband.The intensity of love,affection,caring and sharing should increase between the couple so that two wheels of family-the wife and husband run on the rails of life harmoniously.
With restoration of old-time husband-wife relationship with positive changes needed to adjust the forces of over-materialistic culture will stabilise the family creating peace in every member of the family,which will contribute to community and global peace.Let us work together to achieve this objective so that peaceful communities are established in the world.
Fanibhusan Das

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I don't agree

I can see your sincerely, but family is, as you say, the basis. Why then are things so messed up? If it is because of materialism or economics I don't get a clear picture of what your are proposing that would change that.

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I couldn't agree with you

I couldn't agree with you more. I take excellent care of my husband, and he takes excellent care of me. We operate like a well oiled machine. We quit worrying about material things along time ago. When there is no work in your town and you have no money, the material things are irrelevent. We survive just fine. While he still eats (yucky!) meat, I am a vegan. My youngest child is a vegan as well. He is not even two yet and picked up on my eating habits and hasn't touched anything that is not natural since. I feel that if the relationship between the husband and wife is balanced, then children seem to be more balanced and calm. NO ADD/ADHD in my home.