Coflictis are built into human body and mind from birth.Growth process and environment regulate degree and intensity of conflict.If the inner conflicts are resolved it will contribute to a great extent to reduce conflict in community.Different people react differently to conflicts.Some people are calm to conflicts and try to resolve in a peaceful manner.Some people show explosive responses to conflicts and that is the beginning of creation of violent community.Absence of rationality,one track mind and regidity etc aggravate conflict in community.
Some of the ideas which can minimise conflicts in community are-
1)Concern for others and honor every person's ideas and skills.
2)Interact with your conscience to resolve conflicts in a peaceful manner.
3)Adopt TRUTH,ORDER AND HARMONY as the guiding principles of your life.
4)Equity in sharing of community's resources.
5)Reinforce the family with love,affection,care and share attitude,feeling for each other, discarging negative feelings,ego,hatred,jealousy etc.
6)Be open to alternative options to community problems.
7)Understanding,adjustment and tolerance to perceive conflicts so that every one will be as open as possible to transform conflicts into peace.
8)Community members should be supportive towards each other rather than judgemental.
9)Adopt proactive attitude to avoid conflict.
10)Social responsibility and continuous learning process to be put into pratice through capacity building of community members.
Once inner and external conflicts are transformed to value based cocepts and actions,we will be able to create propeace community,where crimes,violence,terrorism etc will vanish from the world.
Fani Bhusan Das