How Can I Tell My Children The U.S. Doesn't Torture? updated

How Can I Tell My Children the U.S. Doesn't Torture?

A BUZZFLASH GUEST CONTRIBUTION
by Charleen Touchette

I am a mother of four. My children see the pictures of our young Americans torturing Iraqis. They hear our President say, "America does not torture." The Ten Commandments teach, "Thou shalt not kill," and "Thou shalt not lie." Yet my children see President Bush kill and lie everyday.

Maman's Terror by Charleen Touchette Author of "It Stops with Me"
Is this Christian? Is this American? My teenage daughter is appalled by the genocide in Darfur and the Bush administration's inadequate response. Shouldn't all Americans be appalled?

Bush is making American soldiers torture and use chemical warfare. I can hardly breathe when I think about how my tax money was used to torture people and to melt the flesh of innocent women and children with white phosphorus in Fallujah. How can we sleep at night when our money funds such horror in America's name?

We must stand up and save America's good name.

People talk about "us" and "them." But it is us who are doing this to other human beings. Hundreds of thousands of Iraqi civilians, tens of thousands of Iraqi combatants, and over 3,100 good American soldiers have been killed.

We, Americans, are doing this; it is our money that pays for the destruction; it is our president and congress that are doing it; and we can stop it.

Two things, we can vote with our voices, and with our actions. We live on one earth; think about it, and act like it.

Everything is connected, and each time I turn on a light switch, I need to think about where that energy comes from and if the way it was produced hurts or benefits life. If I extend that question to everything I consume, it won’t be possible to use plastic without knowing the consequence might be the murder or mutilation of a child in Iraq to protect my “right” as an American to petroleum products.

And I won’t be able to forget that drilling for oil on that California high school campus gave American teenagers fatal cancers, or that emissions from plants making plastic kill inner city youth with asthma.

This thinking won’t make me stop using plastic all together. After all, I’m a modern woman, a mother in the modern world who loves the conveniences just like everyone else. But it is time we look at the real cost of our American lifestyle -- the cost to our environment, our children’s future, and our souls.

How safe are Americans when our government uses torture and chemical warfare? My children want to travel, but I’m terrified they’ll face the anger of the world at what George W. Bush has done in the name of Americans.

American mothers, and mothers everywhere, want peace and justice. We don’t want Bush sending our young people to Iraq to kill in the name of protecting us and our children. It doesn’t start with them and it isn’t their fault; it starts with me and you.

There is no path, no blueprint, no road map to peace; the path is peace. Act peace, be peace, buy peace.

Charleen Touchette
Santa Fe, New Mexico

A BUZZFLASH GUEST CONTRIBUTION

Charleen Touchette is an artist, writer, curator, art critic, educator, and activist. Her bio is at http://members.authorsguild.net/touchart/bio.htm.
Originally posted to Buzzflash on November 30, 2005. Death toll updated February 26, 2007.

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mOTHER OF PEACE

Sally(sarah)Mathews
IN RESPONSE TO OUR COUNTRY AND HOW DO YOU TELL YOUR CHILDREN, IF THEY SEE AMERICAN TORTURE; IF WERE ME,
I WAS BE HONEST, AND ALSO, SEPERATE HER PERCEPTION OF HER IMAGE OF GOD FROM THE IMAGE OF OUR COUNTRY, AT FOURTEEN, I WOULD TEACH HER THAT, MOST PEOPLE IN OUR COUNTRY TO NOT BELEIVE OR APPROVE OF TORCHERING, BUT SOME PEOPLE IN ALL COUNTRIES, ACT AT HORRIFIC AUTROCITIES ON MAN KIND, KEEP IN MIND THAT SHE FOURTEEN, AND HER COMPREHENTION STILL NEEDS TO MATURE, IF WERE ME, I WOULD TAKE HER TO PLACES ON THE INTERNET, PEOPLE AROUND THE WORLD, WHO ARE TRYING TO BRING PEACE, THERE ALSO ARE YOUNG PEOPLE WHO ARE MAKING MUSIC FOR PEACE, AND MUSIC IS POPULAR FOR A GIRL FOURTEEN. SPEND TIME READING AND LEARNING ABOUT PEACE, AND LIMIT THE IMAGES ON TELEVISION, BECAUSE, WE A WORLD OF TECHNOLOGY, THAT i MY SELF, CAN NOT
ENDURE TELEVISION AND ITS IMAGES. THIS GENERATION OF CHILDEN, NEED A LOT OF ATTENTION GIVEN TO THEM, TO HELP THEM, FOCUS ON THERE NEEDS IN THERE YOUTH, THE TRUE IS AS PARENTS, WE HAVE A LOT OF RESPONSIBILITY TO KEEP THE YOUNGER ONES, BELEIVE, IN POSSIBILITIES.GIRL AT FOURTEEN ARE VERY SENSITIVE, TO SUFFERING AROUND THE WORLD. BE HONEST, AND TALK ABOUT, WHEN EVER SHE WITNESS A SOMETHING ON THE TELEVISION, ASK HER WHAT THAT IS LIKE, AND ADD POETRY, OR WRITING TO HER LIFE, TO EXPRESS IT, YOU CAN TELL HER OR EXPLAIN, THE WORLD THE WAY IT IS, BECAUSE, THE WORLD IS NOT COMPREHENSIVE TO ADULTS MORE LESS KIDS. OUR COUNTRY IS NOT GOD, i HOPE DON'T MIND MY INPUT, IT IS JUST MY OPPINION, NOT THE WAY, BUT IF PARENTS ARE LOOKING THE WORLD THE WAY IT IS TODAY, FOR THE PARENT, IT DOES FRAY, THE HEART, KNOWING THIS SOMETHING, THAT YOU CAN NOT KEEP OUT
OF THE PROTECTION FROM THE REALITY OF SOME MEN AND WOMAN,A GOOD TIME TO SPEND TIME, MAKING CRAFTS, TAKE TEA SHIRT AND HAVE YOUR CHILDREN AND FRIENDS, DESIGN
PEACE SHIRTS, OR STRING, A STRING OF PEACE BEADS,
AND USE THERE IMAGINATION, AND SPEND TIME TOGETHER,
IN CELEBRATION OF HUMANKIND THAT SUPPORT PEACE.
pILLOWS ARE POPULAR AT THE AGE, PILLOW CASES CAN BE DECORATED WIH SLOGONS PILLOWS FOR PEACE, HEAL THE SPIRIT OF THE WITH CREATIVE PRODJECTS EXPRESSED BY THEM, iN ADDITION, IN THE LIBRARY, THEY OF BIOGRAPHIES OF YOUNG PEOPLE, FROM HISTORY DURING WAR TIMES, AND i THINK IT IS IS THE AMERICAN GIRL SERIES, OR ONE SIMILAR. YOUR CHILDREN ARE YOUR PRIORITY. THE MOTHER OF PEACE. THERE IS NO ROSE GARDEN TODAY FOR ANYONE, BUT STILL HAVE FEED THAT HUMAN SPIRIT